My dearest brothers and sisters,
That is Tunia talking. I really like you so very a lot.
Earth males are in a disaster. A complete lot of them have both retreated into addictive substances or video video games or porn, or have began appearing destructively. Many males stay with their dad and mom. Lots of them are unable to search out companions. Fewer males than girls graduate from college these days, and whereas in fact it’s a great point that girls have extra freedom these days than they used to, a part of it is because males have turn into directionless.
In a latest message, R’Kok shared that he believed that it was largely the accountability of males to be sure that everyone seems to be cared for and secure and has every thing she or he must stay a great life (and ladies’s accountability is to like unconditionally). Whereas there are different views too, I believe this can be a affordable perspective to have. And naturally, immediately’s Earth males are very far off from that.
There are lots of theories in your world about why males are in a disaster. Some imagine that males had been privileged and so they’re now having to adapt to a brand new actuality and males aren’t doing that very effectively. Some imagine that males are inherently brutish and aren’t becoming too effectively into this extra advanced society, and that we solely want a small group of males anyway. Some folks imagine that present tradition is poisonous to males and that younger males lack constructive function fashions and masculine fathers. In a earlier message I’ve stated that schooling because it at present exists on Earth may be very damaging for particularly males.
On this message I’ll share one missed purpose why males are in a disaster. I’m not saying that is the one and even the first purpose. However I’m saying that this purpose isn’t getting the eye that I imagine it deserves.
That purpose is that this: a lot of males are completely prepared to work their arms to the bone and to maintain working till they principally drop useless, as long as they’re given a trigger that they imagine is value it. I’m not saying that I need males to work themselves to dying — simply that many are prepared to take action, if they’re simply given a worthy trigger.
That’s it. Males typically don’t even actually need recognition. However they do have to know that in the event that they work themselves to dying, that their dying may have really achieved one thing significant. They don’t wish to be the sucker who labored very arduous all their life and it principally modified nothing, aside from making some big companies even richer.
After all it additionally doesn’t assist that males are overworked and underappreciated and that dwelling requirements are lowering. Nonetheless up to now, males additionally labored unreasonably arduous at instances whereas having low dwelling requirements. The distinction is that again then, males thought that their arduous work would accomplish one thing significant. A lot of males don’t assume that anymore.
In previous centuries, this worthy trigger was usually ensuring that their spouse and kids would have a great life and be secure, or that their group’s or tribe’s or nation’s wives and kids can be secure. Or it was to be sure that their soul would stay fortunately without end in heaven. Or it was that their soul would have a good re-incarnation within the subsequent life. If a person genuinely believes in considered one of these causes, then typically he’s prepared to work arduous and selflessly.
However these days many males are single or don’t need kids, which suggests they’re not motivated to work arduous for his or her household. Or they stay in a Western European democracy the place the ladies work too and the place it’s comparatively simple to realize monetary stability, and males don’t actually have to be the supplier of the household or work that tough. Or they stay in sure components of the US and so they don’t assume they may give a great life to their spouse and children even when they work tremendous arduous. And sliding dwelling requirements and authorities corruption and financial unfairness and financial crashes and the covid lockdows are all undermining the concept in case you work arduous, you and your loved ones may have monetary stability.
Spiritual causes for working arduous and diligently have been undermined. The nationalistic or communal causes for working arduous have additionally been undermined. Few folks really feel motivated to work arduous all their life to construct a communist society. So has the drive to discover new locations, as a result of the notion is that Earth is explored.
So principally, males don’t have a trigger that motivates them to work arduous. And they also usually don’t. Nonetheless a person who doesn’t have a trigger and who doesn’t actually do rather a lot, in all probability will not be a contented man — or a person who may be very enticing to the typical lady, for that matter. After all I’m generalizing right here, however I imagine that is largely true.
It’s simple at this level to say “alright, effective. Males, go discover a worthy trigger and go work arduous to make that trigger a actuality. For instance, begin an organization that does one thing good on the earth, or go work at a homeless shelter or one thing. There’s loads of issues on the earth that want fixing. Go repair considered one of them.”
However effectively, initially this isn’t very loving to males, as a result of common males are listening to their whole lives that at any time when they’ve an issue, they and so they alone want to repair it — whereas if nearly every other group than males has an issue, it’s out of the blue everybody’s accountability to assist that group. If males have an issue, males want to repair that. If girls have an issue, then everybody must work in direction of fixing that.
And second, it’s additionally not that straightforward. From the standpoint of a whole lot of males, society itself is so rotten that society itself will not be value contributing to. And, effectively, that’s a really comprehensible perspective. One common particular person man isn’t actually able the place he can single-handedly change all of society. That’s not an inexpensive request. Sure, if males had been a hive-mind, they may repair society — however males aren’t a hive-mind.
You can too see this within the shifting of males’s aspirations and icons. To generalize a bit, in earlier instances males believed in America, and so Superman was well-liked, as a result of males appreciated the American society and needed to make a big contribution to America in an open and easy and standard method, as Superman does. Then a while later Batman grew to become well-liked, as a result of males thought that society was deteriorating, as certainly it’s in Batman’s universe. Nonetheless males nonetheless thought that whereas society couldn’t be saved in Superman’s standard method, maybe society could possibly be saved by a darkish knight who labored arduous and did what wanted to be executed with a view to cope with the criminals and restore justice and peace. And these days not even Batman is as well-liked anymore as he was, as a result of males have concluded that society can’t be salvaged anymore, even by a darkish knight who works outdoors the foundations. And if society is irredeemably misplaced and corrupt, then why work arduous for society? And so most males don’t aspire to greater than private wealth and private happiness and private pleasure, for themselves and maybe for a handful of their family members.
So personally I believe there are questions which might be even deeper than: “why are males in a disaster.” Particularly, a few of these questions are: “how can we be sure that society is humane and exquisite and love-based sufficient that individuals really feel it’s value contributing to? What sort of society do we wish? How does the financial a part of our new society work? How can we get to that society? Who would oppose such a society, and retaining that in thoughts, how ought to we proceed?”
The issue of struggling males isn’t solely males’s drawback. It’s everybody’s drawback. And in a perfect world, the answer can be for folks to work on themselves, increase their degree of consciousness, love unconditionally, come collectively, architect a greater society after which work in direction of realizing that higher society, collectively.
Maybe this sounds Utopian, however to an extent that is already occurring, for instance with Michael Tellinger’s “One Small City” initiative. And it’s in all probability going to occur an increasing number of sooner or later.
If in case you have any concepts about what sort of society or group you wish to find yourself dwelling in, I might like to learn them. Be at liberty to share them within the remark part. If you wish to attain a greater tomorrow, it may be a good suggestion to consider the place particularly you wish to go — and as soon as a gaggle of individuals agree on a vacation spot and on a brand new type of society, maybe among the at present inactive males get activated and turn into enthusiastic about constructing this new society.
Lastly, thanks, males, for all of your arduous work and dedication. Maybe society will not be appreciating common males very a lot and will not care about you, however us galactics care about you very a lot. You might be no much less of a divine fractal of Supply than everybody else is. We all know that the majority of you’ve gotten labored very arduous and have obtained little or no. We love you.
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